Self Hair Hate..

I knew this topic would be sensitive to some women, but I decided to go there anyway.  The term "self hair hate" is something that I decided to use to describe the way some women feel about their own hair.  They are not who they really are without someone else's hair on their head.  I see it all the time.  Women acting brand new after they get a fresh weave. They literally became a different person.  It's to the point that people don't even really know who they are not to mention not even really knowing them self.  I say not knowing, because for example, she takes her wig/ weave off and goes to put it right back on as soon possible neglecting her own hair (self).  She doesn't like her self because she doesn't know her self(hair).  What I have grown to realize, is we can do sooo much with our hair.  Most women are surprised to learn the potential their hair has.  It's about convenience.   What it comes down to is the media and what it portrays women as and what they should look like.  Subliminally the media is saying a lot, but consciously one would second guess the thought and even deny that this is even happening when deep down many are hypnotic by the media.

I don't consider celebrities self haters. They are entertainers, that's what they do.  

 

 

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I like this one, Shaq is too funny!!  Yet again a celebrity

 but this.... on the other hand

I don't get it... Is that suppose to be cute?

why blond tho?

Get YOUR hair right.  A real man that is giving you 100% himself don't mind the weave (may hate the wig) and is going to eventually want to see the real you.  So while you are false advertising and thinking you are winning a man many women en up losing a man.  You can't get upset when he finally sees the truth that you failed to reveal in the first place, and then his eyes begin to wonder.   Then the guy always looks like the bad guy, when clearly he has a case "she falsely advertised!"  The girl always says "I caught him cheating" or "he started tripping".  Why don't the girl ever have an idea why he is tripping?  Maybe it's your hair?  Believe this, she may have a pretty weave but if he meet some one with real hair that's as pretty or prettier than the weave, he's gone if this is within the first two weeks or after she take out that weave she met him with.  Usually women that meet a man with unhealthy hair with nothing else going for them in terms of looks or body wise are a hit and quit.   I'm not going to say get your body right , but yeah also take care of that the body hair lol.  Please learn how to shave the pubic area or don't shave at all and find a man that likes a bush.  Nothing says confidence better then pretty hair and pretty pubic region.  I don't care what you wear or how you accessorize it.  A good generous man would adore and cherish a woman that knows how to really take care of herself.  So take care.... and I mean that in a literal sense.